Relations- Are they meant to be broken!!!

मुझको भी तरकीब सिखा कोई यार जुलाहे
अकसर तुझको देखा है कि ताना बुनते
जब कोई तागा टूट गया या खत्म हुआ
फिर से बांध के
और सिरा कोई जोड़ के उसमे
आगे बुनने लगते हो
तेरे इस ताने में लेकिन
इक भी गांठ गिरह बुन्तर की
देख नहीं सकता कोई
मैनें तो एक बार बुना था एक ही रिश्ता
लेकिन उसकी सारी गिरहें
साफ नजर आती हैं मेरे यार जुलाहे
-Gulzar The oscar winning poet, Gulzar Saab beautifully describe the pain of reinvented and renewed relations. Once broken, its very difficult to mend a relation. Even if it is reinvented, there will always be a weakling in the relation. So, the question raised here is what do we do? Should we stop loving only because in the end, we will be left shattered! Or should we embrace all the love we can get! I will go with the second thought. I have a friend, who with all his strength try not to show me his feelings. But I know, somewhere sometimes, he does care for me. Sometimes, I do feel like I am being used. But then, let it be like that. People try to exploit us all the time. Isn't it better to get exploited by someone you really care about! I read it somewhere that if someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean that they don’t love you with all they have.
May be they are not blessed like you.People have a strange tendency to take things for granted. We don't look at what we have and run for everything that is better than what we have. I think this is the main reason for all the unhappiness in life. In the movie New Year's Eve (release 2012), the only message they try to express through it, is this...

It is okay to forgive. It is okay to repeat a mistake, to get hurt. Life is all about getting another chance; a chance to forgive. To do better, to do more, to give more and to love more.

Stop worrying about 'what if'.... Start embracing your life...

In Hindu mythology, it's said that human form is given to a soul after passing through crores of other life forms. Even the angels envy human form. 

So, this life is not to be ruined being isolated. Feelings are the only thing we have different from other animals. Reveal your feelings; say 'thank you', say 'I love you'; say 'I care for you'....